PSA

arihi:

I said it somewhere else and I’ll say it here, too:
People can have different limits with different people. There are many
things I am only okay with from one or two people that I would not be
okay with from anyone else. This goes for both casual encounters and play as well as established partners/relationships.

If you encounter a limit with someone and watch them do that same thing
with someone else? You accept that people have different levels of
comfort. You can’t raise a big public ruckus and go “how dare you not do this with
me!”. It shouldn’t have to be explained why that’s a gross sentiment.